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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Latina shares about life with HIV


Like so many others, Maria never thought contracting HIV was possible.


Maria Mejia
MIAMI, FL - Maria Mejia is 37 years old, born in Colombia and has lived in Miami, Florida her entire life. She discovered she was HIV Positive when she was with the Job Corps Program where they tested individuals for HIV. She was infected with virus around the age 16 from her first boyfriend who at the time, unknowingly to her, was and I.V. drug user and also a gang member and so was she at the time, it was her family at that time. She had a wonderful mother growing up, but at the age of 3 was sexually molested by an uncle and having to deal with a mentally abusive father she ran away from home at the age of 13, which is when she met the boyfriend who would ultimately change her life forever. 

Maria, like so many others in the time period back then, never thought contracting HIV was possible because so many people thought it was just a homosexual disease, as we all know today, AIDS is a worldwide epidemic that doesn't discriminate when it comes to sexual orientation. When Maria discovered she had contracted the HIV virus, she felt as though her life was over and went back home to die. As the years passed she realized that she was not dying and accepted the fact that this disease would be with her until the end. She became spiritual and began loving herself again, and decided she would make changes to her life so that she could continue forward with her life. 

She says that in ways, HIV/AIDS actually saved her life. She became and activist and an advocate and realized that by sharing her story with others, she could save lives. Her 20 year journey has not been easy, because of the stigma attached to the disease itself, which is why she decided to come out of the HIV/AIDS closet and help others. She says that she doesn't want to feel like she's being treated like a criminal and constantly hide from it, she is a human being who just happens to have an illness.

She is a blogger at Thebody.com and a Girl Like Me from The Well Project. She helps others who have been infected and affected by this illness. She is also a peer educator for Miami Jackson University of Miami helping with educational classes, a volunteer for the Red Cross and was trained by the Health Department to be a pre and post counselor, and doing testing. Maria has been a model for HIV medications, and is currently in the Mac Campaign (My Aids Campaign). She has many dreams and wants to reach the whole world. She is a committed warrior in the campaign to help end the AIDS epidemic. 

It only takes one person to change the world, and each time someone like Maria steps forward to tell their story, the world changes for the better. 

Where did you grow up?
I grew up in Miami, Florida.

What is your relationship like with your family?
My relationship with my family is awesome! My mother has been my rock from the beginning but there are some people in my family in Colombia where I am from that think I have another illness, they are very ignorant to the subject.

Does your family know and if so how did they react when you first told them?
My mother was the first one I told back in 1991, back then there was even more stigma, she accepted me and by tried to protect me from being hurt. She told me this is something we will keep to ourselves, we will say you have another illness. After the years passed I started feeling out some of my family member and disclosed to a few, they reacted really well because I was a trained HIV educator and I made sure I educated them long before I disclosed it to them.

Today people see HIV/AIDS as a chronic disease because of the medications that are available, but I think that undermines the disease itself. What can you tell our readers about the HIV/AIDS virus so that they truly understand the effects it can have on the body?
This is exactly what i was talking about, people are minimizing it because they see us looking good on the outside. People don't see the side effects of the medications which is sometimes more horrible than the disease itself, like body changes. Some people lose fat and gain it in other places, their bodies can become disfigured, it's very sad. Or, they lose fat in their faces, its called a lipodistrophy or lipoathropy, most get neuropathy. It is horrible, its nerve damage, and you are in constant pain 24/7 in your feet and legs and hands, like stabbing needles and numbness. It is so bad they prescribe you morphine and heavy duty narcotics which can lead to even more problems like addictions, gastristis, diabetes, aging quicker,renal problems. The list goes on and on. I will continue to say this and please listen, "HIV/AIDS IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE, BUT IT IS A LIFE SENTENCE, you get no breaks and you will most likely take very toxic medication until you die."

What do you think the government can do or should be doing to help in the fight against HIV/AIDS?

I think it is very sad but this disease is being minimized. I believe they should fund for more education, this is the key for everything, to prevent new infections and also for those already living with HIV/AIDS to help take away the stigma, which is something we have to face every day living with the virus. Also, there needs to be more research to find a cure. more into research for a cure.
I am thankful for the medications out there but sometimes the side effects of the medications are stronger than the illness itself. Another thing that has me worried is how young people and adults minimize this illness. People seem to think if you get infected you take a pill and you are fine, this is incorrect and as i always say this is not a death sentence anymore, but it is a life sentence.

What can we teach young people who are becoming sexually active about HIV/AIDS?
That it is not a gay disease or a disease for prostitutes or IV drug users only, that anyone can get it. I got infected, I believe when I was 16 years old and this is no joke, it's a hard illness to deal with and if you have unprotected sex only once, that is all it takes. I want them to protect themselves and not go through what I have been through. If they cant practice abstinence then you must use a condom. Just because you look good on the outside that does not mean you can't have HIV/AIDS. I want them to look at me when they think about having unprotected sex, ANYONE COULD HAVE IT!

Why did you decide to openly share this with the world?
I'm trying to remove the stigma attached to HIV / AIDS. I'm trying to remove the shame that people have connected with the disease. I'm trying to save lives. We are not criminals. Many people have no compassion and can judge others very cruelly.

When did you find out you were HIV Positive
I found out when I was 18 years old, but I think I got infected at 16. I was in a program called Job Corps, which evaluated all who were there. I underwent HIV testing with no major concerns, because at that time people thought that AIDS was a homosexual disease.

How did you contract the disease?
I think I contracted it from my first boyfriend. We were very young, but a few years later I learned that he used intravenous drugs and he was a gang member.

What kind of myths were prevalent at the time?
One of the prevalent myths was that HIV was a death sentence and you were going to die within months. Another myth was that only prostitutes, homosexuals and drug addicts contracted the virus, or you could get it from a mosquito, or drinking from the same cup as someone who was infected. It was a time full of follies and perpetuating misinformation and stigma. People thought heterosexuals were "clean and free" of the disease and if you had heterosexual sex you were fine, but that was not the truth. I was only a teenager. I was 16 years old. 

What was your initial reaction to the diagnosis?
Back then it was a death sentence. I was alone, away from my family. My first reaction was shock, because the doctor who gave me the diagnosis did not prepare me. When I saw his eyes, originally I thought he would say I had lung cancer or something similar, but he told me in a direct way that I had AIDS, it was really shocking. At that time I wanted to die.

When did you decide to fight against this disease and I said "No, I'm not going to die?"
At first, I refused to diagnosis and would not go to doctors to remind me I was HIV Positive, which happens sometimes after a diagnosis. Later, I decided to take control of the situation. I went to a doctor who recommended some strong medication even though it could damage my internal organs.

What did you do then?
I wanted to live longer and did not want to die of something else, such as renal failure that was common at that time because of drugs. It was then I realized that I could not sit and wait for death, and had to do something. I took control of my life and started living a healthy lifestyle.

Did you talk to someone about your diagnosis?
At first, only with my mother and my brother, then shared my secret with some friends, but unfortunately, one of them said "Oh, I cannot believe you just let me take your beer." It was very shocking.

Have changes occurred in your life since you knew you were HIV positive?
It's been a long process. I have had offers to model and announce HIV drugs. At first I did not want any of that embarrassment, but slowly revealed my condition to small support groups and volunteered to work with them. Two important things have happened. First, being tired of hiding like a criminal. Second, my partner's sister died of brain cancer two months ago and that was when I said "Why can people say I have this horrible disease and I can not say I have HIV? I am not a criminal."

Are you receiving any treatment?
Well, the first 10 years I was taking natural medicine; my mother has a health food store. Currently, I take antiretroviral, Coenzyme Q10 400 Mg., it's natural supplement and that helps with the toxicity of the medicines Mitochondria destroyed. Also, Vitamins C, B12 and healthy eating.
 
What activities do you do?
Thebody.com and write articles for the Well Project A Girl Like Me. I also speak at conferences. I volunteer at Jackson Memorial Hospital at the University of Miami as a Peer Educator. Through my Facebook page and email I have for the body.com I give advice to those newly diagnosed or those who have a long history with the virus and those who are suicidal.  Among other activities, I give talks in Miami Dade County Public Schools. I've been active in this fight and soon I will join Positive Connections to lecture and I will be part of the plan committee.

What would your final message be for people?
If you have unprotected sex, it only takes once to get HIV/AIDS. It can happen to anyone, from the youngest to the oldest. We are strong people and survivors, please do not minimize the disease. Get tested, it is better to know than not know, so lives can be saved. "Having HIV / AIDS is not a death penalty, but it is a life sentence."


Latina, former legislator, appointed to state Cabinet position

In appointing Anna Caballero, Gov. Jerry Brown begins to demonstrate pledge to Latino community.
By Carlos Alcala, Managing Editor, The American Latina
Anna Caballero
SACRAMENTO, CA - California Governor Jerry Brown has appointed State Assemblymember Anna Caballero as Secretary of the State and Consumer Services Agency.  In doing so, Brown begins to demonstrate his pledge to California’s Latino population to make them a vital part of his administration.
As Secretary of the State and Consumer Services Agency, Caballero will oversee thousands of employees in vital departments and boards that protect consumers, license physicians, and manage public employee retirement systems.
Caballero, 56, of Salinas, had previously served in the California Assembly representing the 28th District, until her failed bid for election to the State Senate.  An attorney, she launched her legal career in 1979 working as a staff attorney for California Rural Legal Assistance, representing farm workers in consumer matters.  She was a partner in the law firm of Caballero, Govea, Matcham and McCarthy from 1982, which changed its name in 1995 to Caballero, Matcham and McCarthy.  In 1991, she was elected to the Salinas City Council and served as City Mayor from 1998 to 2006.  In addition, she was the Executive Director of “Partners for Peace” from 2000 to 2006.
“Anna Caballero has a tremendous opportunity to become the Latina leader in the United States,” says Jim Hernandez, CEO of the California Hispanic Commission on Alcohol and Drug Abuse.  “She simply has to exercise the courage to advocate civil rights fairness for Latinos…Brown has shown us his good faith, now she must show us that she can lead.”
Caballero will be taking the reins of an Agency which houses the powerful Public Employment Retirement System and the State Teachers Retirement System, each controlling many billions of dollars and both involved in heated debates about pension reform.  In addition, she will oversee the state’s key hiring board, the State Personnel Board, and the state’s primary purchaser and contractor, the Department of General Services.
Caballero, a Democrat, is a graduate of the University of California, San Diego and attained her Juris Doctor from the University of California, Los Angeles.  Her appoint will require Senate confirmation.


Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Latina defines volunteerism in her community


As a child, Angela volunteered at the Zoo and also read to children at a local orphanage.
By Adrian Perez

Angela Rosas, Award Recipient
SACRAMENTO, CA - The 26th Annual Sacramento Women of Color and Diversity Awards were held on March 6, 2011 in Sacramento, California, recognizing individuals whose work has promoted the inclusion and advancement of women of color.  Some of this year’s Award recipients included Joan Cartwright, Musician and Ex. Director for the Women in Jazz in South Florida; Sarah Enloe, Writer, Philippine Fiesta newspaper; Dr. Linda Goodrich, California State University, Sacramento; and newly elected California Attorney General Kamala Harris.  Among these distinguished women was Angela Rosas, a Latina Community Activist who has quietly established herself as one of Sacramento’s movers and shakers. 

Although “Latina Community Activist” conjures up images of woman confronting a PTA or raising concerns at city hall, that is not the case for Angela, whose quiet and shy demeanor fools many who meet her for the first time.  Her dedication, determination and independence has and continues to make a difference in the lives of many children and women, especially those caught in an abusive environment.

Angela was born to teen parents who had to work extra hard to make ends meet, especially to raise a family.  The challenges they encountered made Angela become a “latch-key” child.  Rather than seeing this as a burden, a young Angela enjoyed caring for herself and younger sister, while expanding her mind by reading the encyclopedia. 

Her positive outlook of life continued as she grew older and by the time she was 12, Angela began volunteering at the Sacramento Zoo, helping with the “Summer Camps.”  By age 14, she spent time reading to the children at the Sacramento Children’s Home (an orphanage.)

Angela is also an avid Giants fan
“My parents would drop me off at my grandmother’s house and I would take the bus from there to the Zoo where I volunteered,” says Angela who grew up in the suburb of Elk Grove, California.  “When it was slow, sometimes I would go to the Sacramento Children’s Home and read to the kids.”

While most 12 to 14 year old girls are discovering themselves, their friends and their surroundings, Angela had a more mature approach and a desire of wanting to give.  It is evident that Angela was not a regular child, but one whose gift was to expand her mind and share her knowledge. 

“My parents had me when they were teens, and we were very poor,” says Angela in describing her childhood.  “From them, especially my mom, I learned the ability to make something out of nothing, I learned about pride, respect, and overcoming adversity.”

Upon graduating from high school, Angela attended California State University, Sacramento (CSUS) where she majored in Journalism.  During her time as a student, and in addition to having two jobs, she also volunteered at WEAVE (Women Escaping A Violent Environment) where she helped promote the organization at various events.   

WEAVE is a Sacramento based organization established in 1978 by three Latinas to help women who were in abusive relationships.  In 1988, the services provided by WEAVE expanded to include services for survivors of a sexual assault.  While volunteering, Angela learned to provide counseling and received training to become a speaker for the organization, reaching out to those who feel there is no hope.

“My mom did an amazing job with us girls,” adds Angela in explaining her drive to volunteer.  “I feel that if she created this wonderful life from scratch, I have no excuse for not doing the same, and thanks to her, I don’t have to start from scratch.”

Upon graduating from CSU, Sacramento, Angela took a job as a journalist for a Visalia, California newspaper, where she immediately excelled.  Wanting to return to Sacramento, she accepted a position as a grant writer for a non-profit program before accepting her current position with WholesaleInsurance.net.  As the company’s social media and public relations expert, Angela maintains their Facebook, twitter and overall Internet visibility.  Still, she makes time to continue her volunteerism.

“I am a certified Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault peer counselor,” she says about volunteering at WEAVE.  “Plus, I spend time on their Speakers Bureau and enjoy representing them a various events.”

As if that wasn’t enough for the 27-year old, Angela recently established an organization with some of her friends called “Chicas Latinas de Sacramento,” whose focus is to promote volunteerism. 

Receiving her award (pic by Kati Garner)
“WEAVE has a tremendous need for Latina counselors and through Chicas we have been able to train 10 new Latina counselors,” she says.  “But we still need more counselors that understand Latino culture and language.”

In addition, to WEAVE, Chicas is helping promote Latino art and culture, especially for the youth, and Angela hopes this will also lead to more Latinos volunteering too.  So where does she get so much motivation to be a volunteer?

“I had a powerful role model, my mom,” Angela says.  “I think that is where my drive comes from.”

But, life hasn’t been all rosy for Angela, and she has had to engage situations and people who could have deviated her focus and perhaps hamper her accomplishments.  Yet, through determination and a positive outlook, she has overcome those experiences.

“There have been times when bad experiences could have defeated me,” she says.  “But, I’ve always found strength in saying ‘success is the greatest revenge!’ – not that I truly want revenge, but saying it reminds me not to let others take away from my life’s pursuits.”

There is no question that Angela deserves recognition for her natural talent of volunteerism and being recognized by receiving The Women of Color Award may be the first of many to come.  Undoubtedly, the Sacramento community is a better place to live because of people like Angela Rosas.